Preparing the Parent for Prom

So this is a big week for our family.  both my step-son and daughter have their proms.  Thankfully, they are not on the same day.  I have decided to print out an agenda and to do list.  Dress, Tuxs, limos, buses, weekend schedule..It is really insane but amazing.  I now realize that the Prom is a ritual that will help my children transition to the next stage of their life--college. I must admit I am so anxious.  I am jealous that my parents couldn't call me during or after the Prom (obviously we did not have cell phones)  I am going to try very, very hard not to call and keep the worrying to a minimual.  Will I succeed?  I would love to hear from other parents on making the Prom fun and safe!